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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
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		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 17:35:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LinkedIn&lt;br&gt;------------  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is a reminder that on February 18, Noah Fleming sent you an invitation to become part of his or her professional network at LinkedIn. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Your invitation will expire soon! &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Follow this link to accept Noah Fleming&#039;s invitation.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.linkedin.com/e/isd/1085684274/jaGdOuZw/EML-inv_17_rem/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;https://www.linkedin.com/e/isd/1085684274/jaGdO...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Signing up is free and takes less than a minute.</description>
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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
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		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 14:19:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
		<link>http://noahfleming.com/blog/shoulda-woulda-coulda/comment-page-1#comment-551</link>
		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 03:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>I&#39;d like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn.</p>
<p>- Noah Fleming</p>
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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
		<link>http://noahfleming.com/blog/shoulda-woulda-coulda/comment-page-1#comment-381</link>
		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 20:59:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re right Gren.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Most people have trouble with that part. Nearly everyone has some drive. Most fail in action and execution.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#39;re right Gren.</p>
<p>Most people have trouble with that part. Nearly everyone has some drive. Most fail in action and execution.</p>
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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
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		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 20:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That a girl Susanne!</description>
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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
		<link>http://noahfleming.com/blog/shoulda-woulda-coulda/comment-page-1#comment-382</link>
		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 20:58:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nick,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks for your response here. I&#039;m sorry I missed this earlier. I think you&#039;re right with a bunch of the things you&#039;re saying and having a supportive partner goes back to the similar lines of my &quot;Tag Team Champtions&quot; post...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Your partner is life is almost like the manager! They need to be on the same page.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks for responding.&lt;br&gt;Noah</description>
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<p>Thanks for your response here. I&#39;m sorry I missed this earlier. I think you&#39;re right with a bunch of the things you&#39;re saying and having a supportive partner goes back to the similar lines of my &#8220;Tag Team Champtions&#8221; post&#8230;</p>
<p>Your partner is life is almost like the manager! They need to be on the same page.</p>
<p>Thanks for responding.<br />Noah</p>
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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
		<link>http://noahfleming.com/blog/shoulda-woulda-coulda/comment-page-1#comment-351</link>
		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:59:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re right Gren.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Most people have trouble with that part. Nearly everyone has some drive. Most fail in action and execution.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#39;re right Gren.</p>
<p>Most people have trouble with that part. Nearly everyone has some drive. Most fail in action and execution.</p>
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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
		<link>http://noahfleming.com/blog/shoulda-woulda-coulda/comment-page-1#comment-350</link>
		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That a girl Susanne!</description>
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		<title>By: Noah Fleming</title>
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		<dc:creator>Noah Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:58:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nick,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks for your response here. I&#039;m sorry I missed this earlier. I think you&#039;re right with a bunch of the things you&#039;re saying and having a supportive partner goes back to the similar lines of my &quot;Tag Team Champtions&quot; post...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Your partner is life is almost like the manager! They need to be on the same page.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks for responding.&lt;br&gt;Noah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nick,</p>
<p>Thanks for your response here. I&#39;m sorry I missed this earlier. I think you&#39;re right with a bunch of the things you&#39;re saying and having a supportive partner goes back to the similar lines of my &#8220;Tag Team Champtions&#8221; post&#8230;</p>
<p>Your partner is life is almost like the manager! They need to be on the same page.</p>
<p>Thanks for responding.<br />Noah</p>
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		<title>By: oldnick</title>
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		<dc:creator>oldnick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 09:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Doesn&#039;t that just high light that we are our own worst enemies?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;How many of us allow ourselves to be controlled by those around us? We all have free choice and yet so often our time is controlled by our spouse/kids/friends. We think that saying &quot;No&quot; will lead to confrontation, so whenever a suggestion is made we go along with it, despite silently cursing under our breath about the wasted time.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As you get older too often life becomes about the regrets over things you never managed to do instead of looking forward at how you can do them.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I can&#039;t remember who said it but &quot;Most people are too busy earning a living to ever make money&quot; is an uncomfortable truth. It doesn&#039;t only apply to money though. How many people are too busy earning a living to spend time to get to know their children?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Saddest of all how many people are too busy earning a living to discover what their partner actually wants out of life?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In the UK one of the commonest reasons given in divorce actions is that the man spent an unreasonable amount of time working. While he thought he was doing the best for his family, they felt they were being ignored.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Living your dream is possible, but only if your dream coincides with that of your partner. If it doesn&#039;t, you have two choices. Give up or find a new partner.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Having a partner that shares your dreams revitalizes you like nothing else can. The woulda, coulda, shouda becomes I should, I can and I will.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When you make excuses your partner gives you a little kick and you&#039;re back on track.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You are talking sound sense Noah. Best of luck finding your new direction, I am sure that following your journey will benefit us all.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doesn&#39;t that just high light that we are our own worst enemies?</p>
<p>How many of us allow ourselves to be controlled by those around us? We all have free choice and yet so often our time is controlled by our spouse/kids/friends. We think that saying &#8220;No&#8221; will lead to confrontation, so whenever a suggestion is made we go along with it, despite silently cursing under our breath about the wasted time.</p>
<p>As you get older too often life becomes about the regrets over things you never managed to do instead of looking forward at how you can do them.</p>
<p>I can&#39;t remember who said it but &#8220;Most people are too busy earning a living to ever make money&#8221; is an uncomfortable truth. It doesn&#39;t only apply to money though. How many people are too busy earning a living to spend time to get to know their children?</p>
<p>Saddest of all how many people are too busy earning a living to discover what their partner actually wants out of life?</p>
<p>In the UK one of the commonest reasons given in divorce actions is that the man spent an unreasonable amount of time working. While he thought he was doing the best for his family, they felt they were being ignored.</p>
<p>Living your dream is possible, but only if your dream coincides with that of your partner. If it doesn&#39;t, you have two choices. Give up or find a new partner.</p>
<p>Having a partner that shares your dreams revitalizes you like nothing else can. The woulda, coulda, shouda becomes I should, I can and I will.</p>
<p>When you make excuses your partner gives you a little kick and you&#39;re back on track.</p>
<p>You are talking sound sense Noah. Best of luck finding your new direction, I am sure that following your journey will benefit us all.</p>
<p>Nick</p>
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