linchpin in training
When we find ourselves in an emergency situation, the first instinct will almost always be self-preservation.
My wife likes to tell the story while we were walking on a trail in Newfoundland, and literally bumped into a massive moose, it was I who turned around and bolted in the opposite direction, leaving her to snap a few photos (including this one).
But when an emergency arises, a few things happen. First, the adrenalin goes up and the heart starts beating faster and faster until you can actually feel it pounding against your chest. Secondly, time seems to either stand still or fly by. And finally, fear kicks in and instincts, like self-preservation, will drive us to make fast, quick, reactive decisions.
Of course, fast, quick and reactive decisions usually aren’t the best decisions. Granted, in a bad enough situation (where time is of the essence) you’ll usually want to go with these decisions…Fast!
But let’s say for example that today, around 4:00 pm, you get called into your manager’s office. He lets you know that they’ve decided to let you go. You’re free to pack up your desk and not come back tomorrow.
I have no doubt that your heart will be beating and thumping against your chest as you drive home to tell your spouse the news.
But once you’re out of immediate danger, now’s not the time to make a bad situation worse. Now is the time to use your brain and assess the situation. This is where logic needs to kick in. This is the moment where you begin to carefully assess all options. This is true survivor mode. This is the moment you use the one tool you’ve had in your arsenal all along – your brain. Use it wisely.
Don’t jump at the first opportunity. Don’t start spamming your resume to hundreds of employers. Don’t panic and use up all your resources. Don’t eat anything you’re not sure about. Use this time to carefully analyze the situation and plan for your survival. You might be in it for the long haul. The good news is, this might be a blessing in disguise.
Oh, but if you see a bear, run like hell.
In: Misc
16 Jul 2010“I will hazard a prediction. When you are 80 years old, and in a quiet moment of reflection narrating for only yourself the most personal version of your life story, the telling that will be most compact and meaningful will be the series of choices you have made. In the end, we are our choices. Build yourself a great story. Thank you and good luck!”
~Jeff Bezos – Founder & CEO of Amazon speaking to the class of 2010 at Princeton (read the entire address here)
P.S. Enjoy the weekend.
In: Career & Work
15 Jul 2010
A lot of people believe that through the simple act of putting in the time at their chosen careers or jobs, the natural progression will be to slowly climb the career ladder, get promoted every couple of years, and see a steady increase in pay.
I think 30 years ago this was an excellent strategy. I don’t believe it works anymore. I think those days are over. Forget the ladder.
The problem is that there is someone hungrier sneaking up behind you. There is someone who wants it more than you do and is eyeing your position. There is someone RISKING more than you and is ready and willing to take it away from you. There’s a linchpin building a resume that doesn’t require two sheets of 8.5″ x 11″ inch paper. He doesn’t need it because his work, his ideas, and his reputation have already found their way to your employers.
And when push comes to shove, who do you think your employers are going to take? Sure, you’ve put in the years and the time. You followed the rules because that’s the way they told you this all works. That was the lie you believed. It would be a shame to realize this too late.
What about this new fellow? He’s risked it all. He’s gone to the edge. He’s taken chances. While you sat around getting older and waiting, this little bugger took what you thought you were entitled to from right under your nose.
So what’s the solution?
The solution is to stop waiting and get on with it. You need to must become the linchpin.