Long-Term Pain for Short-Term Gain

My workouts suck. They’re hard as hell. Sometimes they only last a few minutes. They scare me.

My wife knows the days when I haven’t had time to do my workout before we both get home in the evening. She can tell because I’m scared, nervous, and jittery.

Last night my workout took me only about eight minutes, but today my bones are aching.

I’ve written about my exercises before.

After running my first half marathon last September, I took a few months off from my daily fitness routine that I had been following for over a year. I think I gained about 10 pounds during my winter hibernation.

Within just over two months, I’ve been able to get back down to my pre-marathon weight and fitness level. I’m stronger and in better shape than ever before.

Accomplishing that was easy in one sense, but hard in another. There was an extreme amount of short-term pain associated with getting back into shape.

Short-term pain means actually starting my workouts and pushing myself.

It means skipping pizza, burgers, and beer on Friday nights.

It means bringing a healthy lunch to the office instead of eating out.

It’s short-term pain, but the gains in my health and general well-being are long-term.

But what about long-term pain for short-term gain?

This is the equivalent of slugging it out in a situation you’re not happy with in hopes of one day experiencing short-term gain. The relationship has been bad for years, but it’ll get better one day if I just stick it out, right? The boss treats you like crap and criticizes the work you do, but one day she’ll be nice and realize how important you are to the organization, right? Right???

If you’re dreadfully miserable in your work or your day-to-day duties, but the pay is good and you’ve been promised that by accepting the pain now, your life will get better later, was it really worth it?

I’d much rather experience some short-term pain now.

The short-term pain associated with taking risks and chances is hard because it’s scary. Of course, over the long run, a little bit of pain might actually be worth it.

I believe that we’ve been fooled into believing we’re actually engaged in short-term pain for long-term gain. We’ve been fooled into believing we have to slug it out because in the end, the good years are the long-term, worry-free retirement years awaiting us at the end of our careers.

Suck it up. Don’t ask questions. Work hard. Aim for retirement.

That’s all fine and dandy, if you’re lucky enough to maintain both your mental and physical health into those later years.

Spend a few minutes this weekend thinking about your situation and what cycle you’re in.

Think long term….even if it hurts like hell.

  • John Boy

    …or wake up and 30 years have gone by…”like that”.
    “Pain” could just be that Lizard living in the attic complaining.

    True pain could cause damage,long term >>> damaged shoulder to show for my working out through “macho-man” pain.

    You know about “water dowsing” at 6 degrees farenheit in the snow.

    Do THAT and you will feel exhilarated after doing it.

    Just BEFORE doing it,that lizard tries to talk you out of it with countless excuses. After several sessions of doing the scheduled dunk, it slowly backs off wasting its time for it knows you will do it,no matter what.

    In summer it is time to add chunks of ice to the bucket.
    What is your metaphorical water bucket and are you adding enough ice?

  • IvanaSendecka

    hi Noah,
    great thoughts. Let me elaborate a bit as well on pain:
    I was told 10 months ago by my boss (ex-boss now), before I have decided to quit my job: “that I HAVE TO take a pain from doing boring stuff, as this is the tax for being junior and then later I will be allowed to do creative stuff…” and that moment I knew I cannot take this kind of pain at all, because I am responsible to use talents and gifts which I have been given. The greatest pain and harm for us is to sacrifice our precious time in this world and trading it off for some distant promises of promotion/ security and reward.
    Once you free yourself from this pain, any other pain on the journey when you are pursuing your passion will feel like a blessing.
    I am simply grateful for every hurdle and difficulty on my journey, because it is my journey and I believe it will leave marks in this world when I will not be here anymore;-)
    Have a super cool Friday, guys.
    greetings from Slovakia
    i.

  • http://noahfleming.com/ Noah Fleming

    Hey Ivana

    Late response. I REALLY appreciate your comment. What a great story and comment.

    That's the thing right.. You HAVE to? yeah, says who????

    Cheers from Canada!
    Noah

  • http://noahfleming.com/ Noah Fleming

    I like this John. I love how the lizard tries to talk you out of it.
    As Seth says, “Acknowledge the lizard and move on.”